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Femdom

Femdom is a special subset of BDSM that focuses on women in charge of submissive guys.

Flogging (flagellation)

Flogging originated as a punishment in olden days and back then it was not so nice.

Gags

Gags are a piece of BDSM equipment that are designed to go into the mouth to keep an unruly submissive quiet.

Any role in which someone is helpless. They may be the victim to their roleplay partner (robber, kidnapper, etc), or their partner may act as a savior (think of a princess who needs saving or an inept housewife).

Humiliation

Some people believe that humiliation has no place in the bedroom – until they try it at least.

Hypnotism

Hypnokink is the non-conventional use of hypnosis for sexual pleasure. This practice is a variety of recreational hypnosis.

Impact play

Impact play is defined as any activity that involves striking someone with either body parts or external implements.

Imprisonment

An imprisonment fetish is a fixation with being locked inside of any sort of cage, room, casket, or any other isolated space.

Jerk off instructions

JOI (or jerk off instructions) refers to a person giving someone explicit instructions on how they should masturbate.

Masochism

A masochist is an individual who takes pleasure in the experience of physical or emotional pain.

Objectification

Objectification is the act of dehumanizing a person for pleasure. This can be done through a variety of methods and suggestions, like turning someone into a human footstool, or making them lay on the ground like a rug for you to walk on.

Odaxelagnia

Odaxelagnia is a sexual paraphilia where an individual has an unusual sexual arousal related to biting or being bitten.

Orgasm denial

Orgasm denial is a kind of sex play that involves maintaining a high level of arousal for an extended period of time without experiencing orgasm.

Pet play

Pet play is all about ’escaping’ the responsibilities of everyday human life by escaping to the world of simple, animalistic responses.

Pony play

Pony play is a BDSM activity and fetish involving role play with one participant playing the role of pony and their patner acting as their rider or trainer.

Psychrocism

Psychorocism refers to sexual arousal and gratification from freezing. Satisfaction is derived from feeling cold or from watching people who feel cold.

Pygophilia

Pygophilia is a fetish that involves being sexually aroused by another person’s buttocks.

Rape fantasy

This fetish for acting out a pretend rape (consensual nonconsent). This fantasy can occur on both the victim or perpetrator’s sides.

Ropework | Kinbaku | Shibari

This kink for rope as used as the specific type of bondage.

Sadism

Sexual sadism is the infliction of physical or psychological suffering on another person for the purpose of sexual arousal and orgasm.

Sensation play

Sensation play consists of activities that simply give physical sensations to your partner.

Sounding

Sounding, also known as penal insertion of inserting objects into the urethra involves male submissives.

Spanking

Spanking is best known as the act of striking the ass with a firm hand.

Strap-on

Fetish specifically for using strap-ons. Strap-ons may be used for penetrative vaginal sex, anal sex, or pegging - anally penetrating a male with a strap-on.

Suspension

Suspension bondage is a specific type of bondage, usually in the style of the Japanese art of Shibari.

Teasing (Tantalolagnia)

Tantalolagnia is a condition which causes people may enjoy masturbating or having sex while a partner teases them.

Uniforms

Uniform fetishization is related to how sexy different types of uniforms look in public.

Vincilagnia

Vincilagnia is a kink based around one person’s love of being tied up and at the mercy of the other person, or people, involved in the kink scene being created.

Wax play

Wax play is a type of BDSM play in which a Dominant or top drops hot wax onto the body of a submissive or bottom.

Zappers

Zapper is a cute nickname for an electro-wand that is used as part of electrostimulation.

Zentai

Zentai, which stems from the Japanese term zenshin taitsu (full body tights), is a formfitting suit that covers the entire body, including the head, fingers, and toes.

Amazon

The Amazons were believed to be a tribe of women warriors.

Asphyxiation

A highly dangerous kink dedicated to choking, smothering and strangulation. Asphyxophilia is a sexual paraphilia in which an individual is aroused by or sexually interested in asphyxiation at the moment of orgasm.

Begging

Begging is a term for the act of pleading with another person for something.

Blindfolds

A blindfold is something that you can use to temporarily block someone’s sight.

Bondage

Bondage is the act of tying someone up or restraining them using some kind of object.

Breast|nipple torture

Breast torture is a BDSM practice wherein the submissive is tortured via pain inflicted on the breasts.

Breast|nipple worship

When you are faced with a beautiful woman standing in front of you in a Dominant position, the only thing a submissive can do is beg for the privilege to worship her completely.

Caning

The act of hitting someone with a rod known as caning.

Chastity

Chastity once served a purpose. Knights and important men would lock away their wife’s pussy so no one else could misuse their property, but now, it has become a fetish.

Cock and Ball Torture

Cock and Ball Torture is exactly what it sounds like. It is the act of torturing the cock and balls of a male submissive.

Cock worship

Cock worship encompasses many different acts of attention, stimulation and adoration of the penis - whether strap-on or biologically equipped.

Collaring

Collaring represents the act of submitting oneself to the dominant. Often regarded as a powerful symbol in the world of BDSM, a collared individual publicly represents the D/s relationship between the two parties.

Discipline

Discipline is something that is typically used in BDSM type of relationships.

Dominance

Domination is the general term for what the dominant person does in a BDSM relationship.

Enemas (klismaphilia)

Unlike double penetration (DP), which is simultaneous anal and vaginal penetration, DVP involves two penises or one penis and one toy in the vagina.

Face sitting

Facesitting is exactly what it sounds like. It’s mainly done when someone with a pussy sits her snatch down right on top of a guy or girl’s face.

Face slapping

Face slapping is an act of power performed by a master or mistress to show their power over a submissive partner in a BDSM relationship.

Toys under clothing

A fetish for using/wearing toys such as using butt plugs during the day and not just during sex activity.

Tease and Denial

Tease and Denial is the sexual technique of bringing your partner close to orgasm and then stopping or reducing stimulation to prevent that orgasm from occurring.

Abduction as seduction

Abduction as seduction is also known as forced seduction. It is a theme that is found in a lot of western literature, especially soap operas, where a woman is kidnapped or held against her will, forced into non-consensual romance or interactions, and then truly falls in love with her captor.

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