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Bi-comfortable | Same-sex obsession

Bi-comfortable describes individuals who are comfortable with the idea of bisexuality, even though they may not identify as bisexual.

Chatting | Cyber sex

Cyber sex is what happens when you hop online and go onto some dating site or instant messaging service that allows for instant communication.

Competitive Game

It is not a fetish. Competing in a game, sport, etc.

Cougar | Milf

A cougar or a MILF is an older women who is quite sexy.

Cum eating

Semen can be extracted in different ways. Sometimes it will drip out on its own and can be licked off the anus of vagina.

Deep French kissing (DFK)

Don’t forget about the importance of kissing and how varied it can be.

Doll fetish

A doll fetish is when a person is attracted to dolls and other doll-like objects.

Erogenous zones

Erogenous zones are areas of the body with heightened sensitivity. Stimulating them can inspire delicious feelings of relaxation, affection, and arousal.

Face fucking | Deepthroat

Facefucking is the act of grabbing someone’s head during a blowjob and shoving your cock as far down their throat as it will go, resulting in deepthroating, gagging and plenty of messy drool.

Femdom

Femdom is a special subset of BDSM that focuses on women in charge of submissive guys.

Fetishism

Fetishism is a type of sexual deviance where people become aroused by objects or things that are non-sexual in nature.

Fighting|Wrestling

Everyone knows wrestling is a sport in which people grapple with each other using techniques from various styles including Greco-Roman wrestling and Sambo.

Fisting

The act of fisting shouldn’t be one that is very hard to figure out what it is.

Flogging (flagellation)

Flogging originated as a punishment in olden days and back then it was not so nice.

Food play

Food play is any kind of sexual play that involves items you would normally eat.

Foot fetish includes anyone who is obsessed with feet. There are many different foot fetish niches people enjoy and while some have varied interests, others are only aroused by narrowly defined aspects of foot play.

Furries | Yiffing

A furry is someone who has enthusiasm for dressing up in a costume that covers their body from head to toe.

Gags

Gags are a piece of BDSM equipment that are designed to go into the mouth to keep an unruly submissive quiet.

Gerontophilia

Gerontophilia is a fetish for old people. It is different than just liking a MILF or a cougar, this is probably more so talking about the GILF – grandma or grandpa I’d like to fuck.

Golden shower (Watersports)

Well, you know what a shower is, but what is it that makes a shower golden?

Group sex

Group sex is any type of sex that is between groups of more than 2 people.

Handjob

A handjob is one of the most basic sex acts possible.

Harpaxophilia

The fetish for being robbed. Can be played as a role in consensual non-consent.

Helplessness | Merinthophilia

Any role in which someone is helpless. They may be the victim to their roleplay partner (robber, kidnapper, etc), or their partner may act as a savior (think of a princess who needs saving or an inept housewife).

HICKEYS

A hickey is a mark left after sexual activity, usually on the neck, by a kiss that involves heavy sucking.

Humiliation

Some people believe that humiliation has no place in the bedroom – until they try it at least.

Hypnotism

Hypnokink is the non-conventional use of hypnosis for sexual pleasure. This practice is a variety of recreational hypnosis.

Impact play

Impact play is defined as any activity that involves striking someone with either body parts or external implements.

Imprisonment

An imprisonment fetish is a fixation with being locked inside of any sort of cage, room, casket, or any other isolated space.

Intercrural fucking

It’s when a guy takes his dick and sticks it in the fleshy area near a woman’s genitals.

Interrogation Play

Interrogation play is a form of role play with a BDSM edge.

Jerk off instructions

JOI (or jerk off instructions) refers to a person giving someone explicit instructions on how they should masturbate.

Katoptronophilia

Katoptronophilia is a kink where someone really likes to have sex in front of mirrors, or when a person gets really turned on by seeing their own reflection in a mirror.

Lactation

If you’ve got a lactation fetish then you love to see women who can make milk squirt out of their breasts.

Lesbophilia

Lesbophilia describes a lot of guys out there. They love to watch lesbian porn and they have a thing for girls who enjoy making out with each other.

Macro Fetish

Macro fetish, also known as macrophilia, is a sexual fetish for giants.

Macrogenitalism

Macrogenitalism is a fetish for very large genitals. People with this fetish become aroused by individuals who have significantly larger genitals than the norm.

Maschalagnia

Armpit fetish, or Maschalagnia, is especially desired with people that have hairy armpits with natural odors.

Masochism

A masochist is an individual who takes pleasure in the experience of physical or emotional pain.

Mechanophilia

Mechanophilia is a fetish involving someone really likes their car or other machines to such a strong degree that they begin to sexualize them in their minds.

Medical play

Medical play often involves an examination of one person by the ‘doctor’, who may take advantage of the situation.

Melolagnia

Melolagnia is a fetish that involves being turned on by music.

Mess fetish

If you would rather avoid the wet spot on the bed, then this kink probably isn’t for you.

Mile High Club

Joining the Mile High Club is easy. Having sex in an airplane when it is at least one mile up in the sky is the traditional definition.

Military | Uniform

The uniform fetish, has to do with how sexy different types of uniforms look on people.

Mixophilia

A kink related to watching yourself having sex. Recording sex and mirrors are two ways to enjoy this kink.

Mummification

Mummification is a type of rather extreme bondage which you can probably imagine what the results look like.

Mysophilia

This fetish is for dirt and items that have been dirtied, especially by bodily fluids during sex.

Nasophilia

Some people find something about the nose so alluring that they just cannot leave it alone during sex.

No panties | Cameltoe

It combines two fetishes. The first one is the excitement of walking without panties, which can turn both you and your partner on before hot sex.

Nudism

Nudism, also known as naturism, is a practice followed by people who believe that being naked is always better.

Nylons

A nylon fetish—yep, as in tights—often accompanies a foot fetish. One with a nylon fetish may enjoy the look and feeling of toes, feet, and legs wrapped tightly in nylon stockings.

Objectification

Objectification is the act of dehumanizing a person for pleasure. This can be done through a variety of methods and suggestions, like turning someone into a human footstool, or making them lay on the ground like a rug for you to walk on.

Oculophilia

Oculophilia is a sexual fetish having to do with arousal from or fantasies about eyes.

Odaxelagnia

Odaxelagnia is a sexual paraphilia where an individual has an unusual sexual arousal related to biting or being bitten.

Olfactophilia

Olfactophilia is the paraphilia involving intense sexual arousal derived from odors, particularly those coming from the body.

Omorashi

Omorashi is a sexual fetish which involves people who are aroused by having a full bladder or wetting themselves.

Orgasm denial

Orgasm denial is a kind of sex play that involves maintaining a high level of arousal for an extended period of time without experiencing orgasm.

Parthenophilia

Parthenophilia is the sexual interest in or arousal by virgins in particular.

Pecattiphilia

This fetish for sinning and breaking religious rules. Pecattiphilia refers to a sexual arousal derived from engaging in the act of doing something that is believed to be sinful or that makes them feel guilty.

Penis Humiliation

Penis humiliation or small penis humiliation (SPH) is a fetish where penis owners get turned on when their partners belittle the size of their penis.

Pet play

Pet play is all about ’escaping’ the responsibilities of everyday human life by escaping to the world of simple, animalistic responses.

Phygephilia

Phygephilia involves a sexual arousal related to flight or being a fugitive.

Pictophilia

This fetish for watching pornography, especially of the same actor. Try choosing porn that is interesting to you and your partner.

Plushophilia | Ursusagalmatophilia

Plushophilia is fetish for stuffed animals. These people may have a kink specifically for teddy bears.

Pony play

Pony play is a BDSM activity and fetish involving role play with one participant playing the role of pony and their patner acting as their rider or trainer.

Pregnancy

A pregnancy fetish, also known as maiesiophilia or maieusophoria, is one in which pregnant women are viewed as erotic phenomenons.

Psychrocism

Psychorocism refers to sexual arousal and gratification from freezing. Satisfaction is derived from feeling cold or from watching people who feel cold.

Pubephilia

Pubephilia is a sexual attraction to pubic hair. Most commonly people with pubephilia, known as pubephiles, are attracted to women with noticeable pubic hair, but pubephiles can be of any gender and sexual orientation.

Public Sex

Public sex is any sex act that takes place in a public place where witnesses or spectators may discover the action.

Pygophilia

Pygophilia is a fetish that involves being sexually aroused by another person’s buttocks.

Quirofilia

A specific fetish for hands is referred to as quirofilia, which may manifest as an attraction to fingers, a great manicure, or simply some smoking hot hands.

Rape fantasy

This fetish for acting out a pretend rape (consensual nonconsent). This fantasy can occur on both the victim or perpetrator’s sides.

Robotism

People with a robotism fetish have an erotic or sexual fascination with robots, cyborgs, or androids.

Role Play | Cosplay

Role-playing is another common perversion, which consists of people taking on images that do not belong to their everyday life as part of a sexual scene.

Ropework | Kinbaku | Shibari

This kink for rope as used as the specific type of bondage.

Sadism

Sexual sadism is the infliction of physical or psychological suffering on another person for the purpose of sexual arousal and orgasm.

Sensation play

Sensation play consists of activities that simply give physical sensations to your partner.

Sixty Nine | 69

Sixty Nine is a special sex position in which two partners can both give each other oral sex.

Somnophilia

The fetish for sexual partners who are asleep. It is a rare fetish.

Sounding

Sounding, also known as penal insertion of inserting objects into the urethra involves male submissives.

Spanking

Spanking is best known as the act of striking the ass with a firm hand.

Spectrophilia

Spectrophilia refers to the fetish of fantasizing about sex with ghosts or spirits as well as the phenomenon in which people believe they’ve had a sexual encounter with a ghost.

Stockings

Stockings are the closest garment a woman wears have an intimate relationship with her pussy, sopping up every droplet of juice when she becomes excited while fully dressed.

Strap-on

Fetish specifically for using strap-ons. Strap-ons may be used for penetrative vaginal sex, anal sex, or pegging - anally penetrating a male with a strap-on.

STUCK FETISH | CONFINEMENT

A confinement or stuck fetish is a fetish where people get stuck in any kind of situation.

Suspension

Suspension bondage is a specific type of bondage, usually in the style of the Japanese art of Shibari.

Teasing (Tantalolagnia)

Tantalolagnia is a condition which causes people may enjoy masturbating or having sex while a partner teases them.

Telephonicophilia | Phone sex

Phone sex is the art of picking up the phone to speak with someone by voice and using nothing beyond your shared imagination and audio interactions to reach orgasms together.

Tentacle fetish

First, let’s get one thing straight: You can’t have sex with an actual octopus or octopus-like monster—octopuses are animals and therefore cannot give consent.

Toys

It is not a fetish. But do not forget about the variety of toys for sex and experiment more with toys together with your partner.

Transformation fetish

Kink for transforming into other people or even non-human creatures. Someone has a transformation fetish when they are sexually aroused by the description or actual transformation of a person into something else.

Trichophilia

Trichophilia, also referred to as hair fetishism, is the erotic attraction to hair.

Triolism | Threesome

A threesome is an act of group sex that involves three partners.

Tripsolagnophilia|Massage fetish

Massage fetish. Even if you don’t have a fetish, a sensual massage can be relaxing and it’s good foreplay!

Underwear fetish

An underwear fetish involves being aroused by, or fascinated with underwear, usually women’s underwear.

Unexpected sex

It is not a fetish. Unpredictable sex can heat up your relationships.

Uniforms

Uniform fetishization is related to how sexy different types of uniforms look in public.

Unusual places

This is for those who like public sex and are already experienced in it.

Vicarphilia

Vicarphilia is vicarious arousal, a kink where individuals are intensely aroused by hearing the sexual experiences, interests, and behaviors of others, namely those who live different—or usually more thrilling—lives than their own.

Vincilagnia

Vincilagnia is a kink based around one person’s love of being tied up and at the mercy of the other person, or people, involved in the kink scene being created.

Voyeurism

A voyeur is someone who derives sexual pleasure from watching others get it on.

Wax play

Wax play is a type of BDSM play in which a Dominant or top drops hot wax onto the body of a submissive or bottom.

Weapon fetish

People with a weapon fetish are aroused by a wide array of weapons, ranging from swords, knives, and clubs, to more modern weaponry such as guns and explosives.

Webcam

Getting frisky on a webcam or chat - can be a great way to spice up a relationship when the two of you are miles apart.

Wet and messy (WAM) fetish

Wet and messy, also known as sploshing, is a fetish where people enjoy being covered in or surrounded by wet food or beverages.

Xylophilia

Xylophilia is a sexual attraction to the woods. Wood has been used to reference male erect genitalia forever, but in this case, xylophilia is not referring to a hard penis, it is literally an attraction to wood and the woods.

Zappers

Zapper is a cute nickname for an electro-wand that is used as part of electrostimulation.

Zelophilia

Zelophilia is sexual arousal from feeling jealous. Jealousy is known as a love killer because it is considered a negative emotion.

Zentai

Zentai, which stems from the Japanese term zenshin taitsu (full body tights), is a formfitting suit that covers the entire body, including the head, fingers, and toes.

Altocalciphilia (high heels)

Altocalciphilia is a fetish for high-heeled shoes. People with altocalciphilia may become aroused while wearing this footwear, or by fantasizing about, watching, or interacting with people wearing high-heeled shoes.

Amazon

The Amazons were believed to be a tribe of women warriors.

Anal sex

Anal sex is sexual penetration that involves the anus, aka the butt.

Anal training

Anal training is the process by which a person’s anus becomes accustomed to different kinds of anal touch, particularly penetration.

Anonymous sex

An anonymous sex fetish is when a person gets sexual arousal from not knowing who their sexual partner is.

Aquaphilia

Aquaphilia is a fetish that involves sexual activity under water, finding sexual arousal in photos of people underwater, and underwater activity such as swimming.

Asphyxiation

A highly dangerous kink dedicated to choking, smothering and strangulation. Asphyxophilia is a sexual paraphilia in which an individual is aroused by or sexually interested in asphyxiation at the moment of orgasm.

Balls fetishization

When a male or female loves to lick or fondle or just in general likes to play with the male nutsack.

Barebacking

Barebacking is a form of sex in which neither partner wears a form of protection that would form a barrier.

Begging

Begging is a term for the act of pleading with another person for something.

Blindfolds

A blindfold is something that you can use to temporarily block someone’s sight.

Blowjob

A blowjob is something that most people know about. It is when a guy or girl puts their lips around a dick and sucks.

Body modification

Body modification doesn’t always have to be fetish related, but it often is.

Bondage

Bondage is the act of tying someone up or restraining them using some kind of object.

Breast|nipple torture

Breast torture is a BDSM practice wherein the submissive is tortured via pain inflicted on the breasts.

Breast|nipple worship

When you are faced with a beautiful woman standing in front of you in a Dominant position, the only thing a submissive can do is beg for the privilege to worship her completely.

Caning

The act of hitting someone with a rod known as caning.

Chastity

Chastity once served a purpose. Knights and important men would lock away their wife’s pussy so no one else could misuse their property, but now, it has become a fetish.

Claustrophilia

Claustrophilia is a sexual fetish that involves sexual arousal by or interest in being confined in small spaces.

Clothed sex (endytophilia)

Clothed sex is just what it sounds like. There are different variations on the theme but most of the time when you have clothed sex, it’s simply because you only have a few minutes to fuck or you think your date’s outfit is really hot.

Cock and Ball Torture

Cock and Ball Torture is exactly what it sounds like. It is the act of torturing the cock and balls of a male submissive.

Cock worship

Cock worship encompasses many different acts of attention, stimulation and adoration of the penis - whether strap-on or biologically equipped.

Collaring

Collaring represents the act of submitting oneself to the dominant. Often regarded as a powerful symbol in the world of BDSM, a collared individual publicly represents the D/s relationship between the two parties.

Corsetry

Corsetry is the making and wearing of corsets. The term may be used to describe making or wearing traditional corsets, a tight fitted top made to support and train the torso into a desirable shape, or the making or wearing of more modern tops that replicate the style of traditional corsets.

Crossdressing | Autogynephilia

Cross-dressing is a fetish that is pretty well known. It is when a guy has a strong desire to dress like a woman, or when a lady wants to appear as a man.

Cuckolding

Traditionally, cuckolding is when a heterosexual couple agrees to both explore the turn-on of the female sleeping with other men and humiliating her male partner about the fact that she’s sleeping with someone else.

Cum worship

Cum on body is a common fetish for men, and there are many websites showcasing images, gifs, and videos of men ejaculating on the bodies or breasts of women.

Cunnilingus

This kink can be geared towards receiving oral sex as a woman or giving it either as a man or woman.

Dirty talking

Dirty talk doesn’t have to be about negotiation at all, either!

Discipline

Discipline is something that is typically used in BDSM type of relationships.

Dominance

Domination is the general term for what the dominant person does in a BDSM relationship.

Double penetration

Double penetration is the act of shoving two cocks or other objects into two different holes, or even two cocks in the same hole.

Double vaginal penetration

Unlike double penetration (DP), which is simultaneous anal and vaginal penetration, DVP involves two penises or one penis and one toy in the vagina.

Dracophilia

Dracophilia refers to a fetish for dragons. This is usually exhibited during sexual role-playing, where a partner may play the role of the dragon, the dragon master, or the slayer.

Enemas (klismaphilia)

Unlike double penetration (DP), which is simultaneous anal and vaginal penetration, DVP involves two penises or one penis and one toy in the vagina.

Exhibitionism

An exhibitionist is anyone who loves to get their thrills in public.

Face fucking

Facefucking is the act of grabbing someone’s head during a blowjob and shoving your cock as far down their throat as it will go, resulting in deepthroating, gagging and plenty of messy drool.

Face sitting

Facesitting is exactly what it sounds like. It’s mainly done when someone with a pussy sits her snatch down right on top of a guy or girl’s face.

Face slapping

Face slapping is an act of power performed by a master or mistress to show their power over a submissive partner in a BDSM relationship.

Fat fetishism

Fat fetish is a strong sexual attraction to overweight or obese people.

Fingering (anus)

Anal fingering is a type of anal stimulation that involves inserting a finger or fingers into the anus.

Fingering (vagina)

Fingering is a sexual act done by a lot of people as a form of foreplay.

Impregnation

An impregnation fetish is a sexual interest in impregnating a partner or becoming pregnant through unprotected vaginal intercourse.

Toys under clothing

A fetish for using/wearing toys such as using butt plugs during the day and not just during sex activity.

Alien | Monster Fetish

Monster fetish refers to one’s sexual fascination with monsters or inhuman creatures.

Age play

Age play is a type of role-play in which one or more partners acts as though they are a different age than they really are.

Tease and Denial

Tease and Denial is the sexual technique of bringing your partner close to orgasm and then stopping or reducing stimulation to prevent that orgasm from occurring.

Acarophilia

It’s arousal from scratching. Scratching is a way to show your partner how much passion you feel.

Abduction as seduction

Abduction as seduction is also known as forced seduction. It is a theme that is found in a lot of western literature, especially soap operas, where a woman is kidnapped or held against her will, forced into non-consensual romance or interactions, and then truly falls in love with her captor.

Anilingus | Rimming

Getting excited by another person’s tongue circling your anus or finding pleasure in circling your tongue around someone else’s anus is what the rimming fetish is all about.